Uh Oh, City Folk
August 6th, 2008Well, here’s a touchy subject….. We had our first refusal to stay this month. We had some people come out who had business in Columbus. After their drive up from the south, probably around a 10 hour drive, they arrived at our doorstep, and didn’t “feel welcome”. Giving us reasons such as “We’ve been to the country before, but it was neater”, and the landscaping was “overgrown”.
So, carefully, I’d like to address a couple of things. First - the house was open, and I had a note of welcome, keys to the house, and a bill indicating amount due - as well as a series of maps that I’d created for the family to get from the house to both of the locations in Columbus where they would be (60 miles of turn by turn directions, an overview and detailed maps down to the street level - which they took, by the way). When they arrived, the first thing they did was close up all the window coverings I have, and lock all the doors. I’m wondering if it was maybe the neighbors they were afraid of….. oh, you can’t see the neighbors from the house. Maybe it was the birds?
Second - we’re in the country on a gravel road. The house is at a bend in the road, and has no houses on 3 sides. On the forth side, the house that’s nearest isn’t visible through the trees. I live 1 1/2 miles away, and I don’t even have any curtains in my house - and never lock my doors, unless we’re really taking a trip - then it’s more to keep the unexpected visitor from letting out my cats while I’m gone. We’ve done a tremendous amount of clean up since we bought the place in January of 2007 - including tearing down two old sheds and an outhouse that were more falling down than standing up - along with removing several bushes and improving the drainage around the front of the house.
Third - we are in the country! Sorry that we are so far from the city, and own 170 acres combined farm land that my husband keeps neater than most of the surrounding countryside, maybe even better than many cities keep their city parks. There’s no trash, and my husband personally uses his weedeater several times a year, walking the 5 miles or so of fence. Can’t keep the electric up and functional to keep the wild cows (that come to a moooooo), and crazy sheep (that come to a baaaah) in if the weeds get too high.
Oh, and by the way, we are a working farm, so the 5 car garage has 4 bays filled up with our farm truck and equipment, but the 1 bay closest to the house is available for parking.
So I’m wondering - how did I mis-represent the place ? We’re 60 miles from Columbus located on a gravel road 4 miles from the nearest LITTLE settlement (Bladensburg), and about 25 miles each from the cities of Zanesville (about 50,000 people), Newark (about 65,000 people) and Mount Vernon (about 15, 000 people). The house is an 1830’s restored cabin - with a log home added to it and a 5 car garage…… read all about it on my site…. but then come see it. There’s wildlife around…. deer often walking in (and nibbling on)the landscape in the front yard. The ground hog that lives near the back porch really appreciates that we’ve got a deck and resin chairs for him to stand on to survey his territory.
The people who had been there the day before these guys came had come down (because they wanted a quiet place to vacation, and wanted to make sure we are reputable, and that the place wasn’t just a cabin in a complex of other cabins like a place they’d stayed before) are staying with us this weekend. The people who stayed this week also came from the city - and their biggest disappointment was that we didn’t have the satellite internet functioning (the service guys are coming today!). They stayed a whole week, and we didn’t pull any weeds especially for them - because we didn’t see the need.
I hope you all will take a look at my pictures and website before coming! But please don’t hesitate to call me if you have any questions or concerns. I think you’ll find that both my husband and I are brutally honest people, and won’t try to “sell” you something that we don’t have. I’m really sorry that somehow I didn’t effectively communicate that we’re on one of the last frontiers in the populated state of Ohio. One of my friends once said, upon being told that we lived in the boonies, “No, I passed the boonies back there about 10 miles before I got here to your house….”, and we live on a paved road.